The purpose of life for an NF is to find his purpose in life. NF is self in search of self & has difficulty understanding what seem to be the false goals of others. Search for identity, meaning, & actualization. Believes his real self is somewhat less than what it should be. Desires to be genuine, transparent; without masks or game-playing. Life is a drama; each encounter is pregnant with becoming. Very sensitive to non-verbal communication. Relationships can fall into a pattern of generous investment of energy followed by disappointment in what-could-have-been. Tend to be writers, poets, musicians teachers, counselors, actors; excellent communicators; gift of helping people grow; strong empathy. Good at appearing to be what the beholder wants to see. Seeks greater intensity in relationships, seeks elusive intimacy. At once both the audience and the actor. Often has difficulty putting limits on time & energy spent at work. Seeks perfection; and is often disappointed. Tends to romanticize experience. Hunger for relationships. NF strengths are a capacity for working with people & drawing out their best, being articulate & persuasive, a strong desire to help others, and the ability to affirm others freely & easily. As a manager, NF has difficulty being firm, tends to give workers too much leeway. As mate, NF has a deep need to give & receive affection and avoid conflict. As a teacher, NF makes each student feel important & cared about. Desire to please & comfortable with theory makes NF an excellent student. About 12% of the population.